I recently ran across this saying, "Life doesn't come with a remote. You've got to get up and change it yourself!" Boy, did that resonate with me!
You see, it doesn't matter what aspect of life you're talking about...it could be weight loss, your finances, your job, your friendships, your marriage, your walk with God, or anything else you're dealing with...you CAN choose to find an avenue of change. All too often, however, it's easy to think that there's only one way to change a situation, and you just can't seem to put your hands on it.
It really is like the television remote. You may be at home, with the TV all to yourself, happily watching your favorite show, and as it ends, something you really don't like at all comes on. You want to change the channel, but you can't find the remote. Your kids aren't around, so you can't call them in to come and change it for you. You dig into the couch cushions, push the dog out of the way, and look under the blanket you're cuddled up under. No remote. You look again at the show that's starting and think, "hmmm...maybe this show isn't so bad after all," because you don't want to get up. Before you know it, you've zoned out in front of a show you don't really like, but since it was there, you accepted it. It's easier to just watch what's coming on then it is to make the effort to get up, walk across the room, and change the channel at the TV set itself.
Isn't that like what happens in our life sometimes? One day, you're going along, feeling like you're on the right track. You're happy and enjoying the path you're on, but then, something comes your way that isn't the best thing for you. Because of the effort it would take to change things for the better, you sigh and get comfortable with the mediocrity, negativity, or undesirable situation that has presented itself. After a while, it feels like things have been this way for so long, that it would be impossible to make a change, so you just live with it, feebly appreciating today because you figure tomorrow will probably be worse.
That's how I used to feel about my weight. I had resigned myself to the belief that being overweight was just my lot in life and that it was something I would always have to live with. My clothes that I bought one month probably wouldn't fit the next month because I would most likely gain a couple more pounds before I wore them again. It would stand to reason this would happen, since I have a family history of weight issues. My parents were/are overweight and unhealthy. Their parents were overweight and unhealthy. So it stands to reason that I would be overweight and unhealthy as well...or does it?
The turning point in my life came when I realized that I was NOT powerless over my weight. But, in order to do something about it, I had to make a choice to make a change. I had to stop sitting idly by wishing and hoping things were different. You can stand in front of the mirror all day long, hating what you see and desperately wanting to look and feel better, but nothing's going to happen until you decide to do something about it. I chose to make a change, and after losing 108 pounds so far, I'm confident I will reach my ultimate weight loss goals. Goals that a year ago were only a dream. Goals that today are becoming my reality. All because I made a choice and made a change.
Get up and change the channel...